A Writer’s Life

Writers, I think, are inherently hyperactive. Hyperactive with a splash of the neurotics. Those who aren’t writers will disagree. We resemble that of a sloth in the mornings, hunting out our first caffeine hit with the grace of a moss-covered creature. We then retreat to our cave, slowly experiencing the ritual metamorphosis until we resemble something closer to a primate. By nightfall, the writer is a standoffish human form – a strange sight to behold; it’s a remarkable transformation—or so I’ve been told.

We’re strange creatures. We lock ourselves away, isolated from the real world, yet go a million miles an hour, delving into the pretend one. Rarely does the wordsmith receive understanding from the outside; only acceptance, tolerance . . . and the obligatory ‘But they’re a writer,’ as though it explains the obvious.

Let’s face it. Tackling a writing career is one of the greatest dystopian, mentally draining, contemptuous acts a single person will ever embark on. It isn’t an easy career, and by all means not an easy choice.

Much like our fellow tortured artists—painters, musicians, photographers, and actors—we’re outsiders looking into a world, desperate to understand the cogs and wheels turning beneath the madness. We clutch at what we know, with it occasionally (mostly) slipping through our fingers. (Notebook, anyone?)


From this desperation we search every corner and every nook of our mind, trying to determine what it is to be human. Facial expressions, traits, environmental settings, secrets, how one speaks, mannerisms, stressors and reactions, suffering, misery, pain, excruciating death . . . to write is to be human. To create is divine.

And then the lone writer will constantly haggle with their inner being, nag at, doubt, accuse, and often hold such ridicule for oneself: Are we good enough? Are our thoughts worthy? Do we matter? The furball-so-called-writing companion on the desk is staring at me again . . . Am I talking out loud?! Am I paranoid? You examine the pros and cons, ins and outs of the world and then you doubt yourself even more.

And then there are those writers who routinely sit for 8 hours, produce their word count and sip iced water . . . really? [enter crickets chirping]

Then you edit, you censor, you rewrite—only to decide the original is more fitting—you pace your study, you publish, you retract, you publish again; you drink more coffee, pat the cat, and go to bed.

But you don’t sleep. Your mind wanders to your characters, your writing, your words, your day, and whether Good Charlotte will break up when they’re in their 70s? What moisturiser does Gerard Butler use and can I have some? Incessant randoms continue to haunt your Z’s until the alarm clock yells ‘Wake Up!’ only for the writer to start their day again.

Wash. Rinse. Repeat.


A lot of writers are divorced, are hermits or have married other writers (or musicians—a strange co-existence in itself). Their children usually go on to other artistic ventures, only because they were forced to befriend their make-believe worlds out of loneliness; rejected for the word count. That, or they practice accounting.

It is what it is, folks. But before you poke fun at the writer next time, spare a thought for their poor soul. The writer didn’t choose this wretched path; it chose them.

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2 Comments Add yours

  1. m00ns says:

    As an aspiring writer, I can relate. Everyone bats my dreams off like an absurdity. Keep on keeping on!


  2. hfckeddie says:

    We write. We disappear into worlds. We are engulfed by words. We find other distractions to bleed away time so we don’t have to go back to “THAT” awful chapter that is not working or is it!!?? We fight the fight of the silent ones, drifting away like a broken stick in a swollen creek racing towards that awful land of self-doubt. That question hits me all the time – will anyone read my words? Will anyone like my style? Will anyone get what I am writing about? Am I any good? We creative souls are out on the fringe of society, tearing away at the imaginations of your soul, your spirit and desperately trying so hard to keep your REAL life full of sane moments. I have four chickens, one turtle, one parrot, 2 dogs, 2 cats and 1 koi and 58 goldfish in a pond – am I sane? Not sure, but hey, keep the flame burning lazydystopian…. I am hfckeddiel.wordpress.com…. my first novel is The Indigo Lock and …. well…. I keep on … keeping on…


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